About The Adult Chair
The Adult Chair® model is not just a tool to become the most authentic version of yourself; it is a lifestyle. This lifestyle has helped me to further transform in ways I never knew were possible.
Throughout my journey, I have done many years of self-work and soul searching. When I discovered The Adult Chair, I began to incorporate this model into my daily life. It has helped me to gain perspective in every aspect of living. I better understand myself and have learned to feel and process my emotions in a healthy way.
This model is packed full of the work and knowledge to become truly healthy adults…the knowledge no one teaches us until we seek it out for ourselves. I believe The Adult Chair can transform everyone and help you to become the highest version of yourself.
The Adult Chair Model
A Manual for Life
The Adult Chair is a manual for your life. It’s a tool that helps you feel empowered, confident and equipped with a clear roadmap to your healthiest, most authentic self. Through The Adult Chair, you will understand how your life experiences have shaped you, give a voice to the different parts of who you are, gain greater self-awareness and respond to life in a healthy way.
The Child Chair
Your inner child forms between ages zero and seven, and it is the foundation of your true feelings and needs. The inner child is deeply vulnerable, which makes it the source of deep, connected relationships. It is also where early wounding can occur, which shapes our view of the world as we grow up. When seated in the Child Chair, we find creativity, passion, spontaneity, trust and intimacy.
The Adolescent Chair
In adolescence, you begin to develop your own identity and realize that you are separate and unique from the world around you. As the ego forms, so does the desire to protect yourself, whether the daggers are real or imagined. When seated in the Adolescent Chair, we become perfectionist, judgmental and controlling, and we develop a mask to hide our authentic selves from a world that seems cold and rejecting. Most of us live from this place until we awake and decide we are ready to change.
The Adult Chair
The Adult Chair represents your highest self: living in the present moment, dealing with facts and truth over stories and assumptions and being able to set boundaries from a place of patience and compassion. While seated in the Adult Chair, we can deeply connect with our inner child’s needs and feelings and objectively observe our adolescent’s behaviors. It is here, and only here, that we can become aware of—and overcome—the emotional triggers and negative patterns that hold us back.